Their are times when we feel like we are all by ourselves in situations that is beyond our control, not knowing that they're are others out there going through the same thing but maybe in a different way. For example before I came to the place I am now, me and my family was going through some living arrangements and we had to stay from place to place. Can you imagine do that with four children, yourself, your husband and a brother that is a boat load of people to travel around with. Don't get me wrong because they're was family and friends who helped us out along the way, but to really know the feeling of our situation you would have to had walk in them shoes. Their was a lot of nights I sat and ask why? why me? why my family? what did we do to go through some much trouble and pain, I felt as if people was laughing and saying nasty thing behind our backs, I didn't know which way was up or down because I felt like we lost everything. Then you sit back and ask yourself if this was all a dream, but realize that this is the real world and nothing is what it seem right. How many people can say that they have been in though shoes before? not many. I'm here to tell you no matter what you go through, what your fighting for, what people may think or say about you, that you are a child of the most high and whether or not you feel that this road of never ending happiness and feeling alone will be over GOD has you. Never self doubt yourself or beat yourself up over things that could always change for the better. You will always have that one person that you could talk to whether you know that or not, just get on your knees and pray but most of all never astray away from your faith in what can happen next. I lost my way and faith a little until I wake up one day and said this to shall past and I'm not going to let this one set back keep me down, no matter what I would go through I would never let no one see me down, depressed, sad, stress or unhappy, I always kept a smile on my face and I put this wall up so no could ever see or know about things that was going on in my life. As women we tend to hold thing in the inside because we want people to know that we are strong and that we can stand against anything, but ladies sometimes we have to "LET IT GO" and let someone in so that we want tear ourselves down trying to be the bigger or stronger person. Just remember to love yourselves no matter what and keep smiling the sun will shine again and as always stay Blessed until next time # Living & Loving Life
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8/26/2015 03:00:35 am
Baby girl you don't know how true those words words are, yes we as black women have to be strong, not just for ourselves, but for our kids,and men.no we don't always have what we need,but we have our faith in who we are as women.yes I have step off the path,I've also had a loss of faith, but I know I'm blessed with the blood of Jesus.yes its a struggle with the cancer,you see I found out I had cancer on 5/6/15 the day I was born,but I have yet to give in,my god is an awesome god.you should talk to you're mom about the good. And bad times when we were in Stockton, ca.I think what you're got here is beautiful, we need to be positive black women now for our young black queens.I love you baby girl,I'm proud to be you're aunt,keep walking with the lord and he will take you places you never dreamed off.
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quita
8/26/2015 04:04:31 am
thank you so much Aunt Shelia you for the words of encouragement that mean so much to me. thank you for sharing a little bit about yourself as well this is why I want to do this, so that others can step outside their box and share their story and stand together with positive words, love you aunty
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AuthorHey everyone my Name is LaQuita, but Quita for short. Lets see I'm a mother of 4 two boys and two girls, married for 5 years to my best friend and I just love life and I have this passion for writing. I would like to start a blog, which I'm new at, so here goes wish me luck. I want to write about life issues and down falls that every one has. But when life gets to hard or we find ourselves with our backs against the wall, we start to shut down and let it get the best of us, but if we put GOD first and know he is the truth and the light, with that we can do anything we put our minds to. I will like to reach out to mother's , who has been through things that we hold in the inside, because we feel like we can take on the world, know that their is always someone to talk too and to never let the things of this world get us down, because you are never alone in anything, stay strong and hold on, remember prayer change things for the better. But again I'm ready to start this journey and that is just a little of me for all of you. Stay Blessed and Stress Free #living & loving life Archives
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